Woman Catches Her Boyfriend Cheating On Her With His Wife

There's being cheated on, then there's being cheated on while finding out that you're actually the one that your significant other is cheating with.  That whole new level of betrayal was unlocked by a woman's boyfriend recently.

The 37-year-old flight attendant who found out that her ex had a wife and family was left wondering if she should break the news to his pregnant wife.  She sent her story into an anonymous letters feed on Threads called mumschronicles.

Plane crew walking in an airport terminal near the airline office. (Nobody pictured is involved in this story.) (Image Credit: Getty)

The woman explained that she had met her ex-fiance two years ago while at work.  She's a flight attendant and he's a pilot.  She said, "Everything seemed so perfect!  We got along so well from the first time we met!  We are both based in different cities, so we see each other periodically whenever we are off."

Early on in the relationship, the two were very busy and never spent any time at his house.  She didn't think anything of it as it was easier for the two of them to meet at her house.  Then things started becoming serious.

"When he started talking about getting married I was so happy.  We celebrated our first anniversary together in Mexico.  It was a perfect three days and he proposed," she continued.  "I went twice to his city and the plan was for us to be based in the same city so he requested a base transfer (or so he said)."

So far so good.  She meets a guy at work, he ends up proposing, and the two of them are planning a future together that includes being based out of the same city.  There was only one problem with all of that.

The Pilot Was Living A Double Life With A Wife And Growing Family

This pilot was living a double life.  And not one as a supercool assassin or anything like that.  He had a wife and family back at that home the flight attendant never visited early on in their relationship.

A fellow flight attendant from the same base as her pilot fiance broke the news to her.  She continued, "A few months after, I had a flight with a girl who was from the same base as him and we started chatting and I shared my story with my man and that I was so excited to get married etc, she asked me his name and I just saw her face changing and she seemed shocked."

She knew something was up and asked the other flight attendant if she knew her pilot fiance.  She, of course, did, and she knew that he was a married man with a child on the way.

"She told me that he was married and his wife was an ex-crew and she was pregnant with their second child," she said.  "I kept asking her ‘Are you sure?  Are you sure?’  I showed her our pictures and even our engagement pictures and video, she confirmed it’s indeed him."

The poor flight attendant never suspected a thing until that moment.  Her ex had two different social media accounts on Instagram and Facebook.  He had one for her and another for his real family.

She confronted him before calling it quits, and his excuse was that he met her when he was separated from his wife and didn't tell her about his family because he didn't want to lose her.

How was this ever going to work out?  Did the pilot really think there wasn't going to be a situation where a flight attendant from his city ended up on a flight with his side chick?  Poor planning on his part and a great example of why you don't mix business with pleasure.

As for the betrayed flight attendant.  There's no question you tell the wife what took place.  You can't have your heart broken by this guy and let him have a happily ever after with his family.  Not a chance.

Let me know what you think sean.joseph@outkick.com.  Should she keep it to herself or ruin things for him and his pregnant wife?