Woman Kicked Her Husband Out After She Found Out He Was Trying To Cheat With Their Daughter's Best Friend

A married mom didn't appreciate her husband's repeated attempts to cheat on her with their daughter's best friend. When she found out about her husband's activities she sent him packing and isn't talking to him at the moment.

There's a lot to unpack here in what is, in all likelihood, some sort of midlife crisis.

The 37-year-old woman shared the details of what led her to kick her 38-year-old husband, Joshua, out of their house. To add some complexity to the situation, their 19-year-old daughter, Dia, doesn't know the reason her dad was thrown out.

It all started when the father of Dia's best friend Aliya, also 19, sent the woman screenshots of text messages her husband had been sending the man's daughter.

"I was sent screenshots of deeply inappropriate texts from Aliya's dad that were sent from Joshua to Aliya," she said.  "They were dated back to January.  My husband was coming onto Aliya, and venting to her."

Aliya wanted nothing to do with the creepy man twice her age and shut him down multiple times.  When she threatened to tell his wife what was going on unless he stopped messaging her, he finally got the hint and stopped texting her.

The messages included some talk from Joshua, who is white, about wanting to divorce his wife, who is Indian, because of her skin color.  He said that he wanted to try again with a blended family with someone more light-skinned like Aliya, who is also Indian.

The Husband Had An Excuse Ready To Go When The Time Came For A Confrontation

Nobody wants to read those kinds of messages from their husband, let alone believe that they're real.  Especially given the fact that he was trying to start a relationship with a much younger woman.

So she held out hope that they were fake and waited until her husband got home to confront him. Unfortunately, he didn't deny that he sent the texts. He went straight into begging for forgiveness.

He attempted to explain it away, "Saying that it was a stressful time in his life, he didn't know what he was doing, and he hasn't tried anything with Aliya or anyone else since."

His wife wasn't buying it. She told him that she didn't want to see him and while he appeared to be disappointed, he packed his bags and made his way over to her mother-in-law's house.

She's not telling her daughter what happened, only that they had a fight and her dad was staying somewhere else for the time being. She's also not speaking with her husband.

He's reached out, but it's been complete silence on her end. She is discussing the matter with her mother-in-law, who is begging her not to throw away 15 years of marriage over a few text messages.

I told you there's a lot to unpack here. This guy dug himself a unique hole.  He didn't just hit on his daughter's best friend, as a guy quickly approaching 40. He threw in some insults aimed at his wife and his own daughter.

Is it enough to call it quits after 15 years? Or score mom one of those affairs for Mother's Day?  Let me know what you think sean.joseph@outkick.com.

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