Husband Worried His Marriage Is Ruined After Wife's Friend Joins Them In Bed

There's a false narrative that seems to be floating around out there that couples can just flip the threesome switch on and off at will without any repercussions. That couldn’t be further from the truth.

Even if the couple thinks they're fully prepared going into a situation with a plus one in the bedroom, that doesn't mean issues don't arise. There can hurt feelings and all kinds of things can go wrong.

A husband is worried about his marriage after his wife's friend joined them in bed for a threesome. (Image Credit: Getty)

For instance, one person can enter believing that what they're participating in is a one and done deal. The other can agree to those terms, then have a change of heart after it all goes down.

That's where we are with this couple. They invited the wife's friend in for a threesome to fulfill a fantasy of theirs and one of them wants to do it again with other women, while the other has had their fill.

"We had sex with my wife's friend.  It was amazing and everything I've ever wanted," the worried husband explains. "It was perfect, but she wants to keep exploring with more women, and I've had my fill."

Wait what? The husband is the one who has had his fill and the wife wants to keep doing it with other women?  That was a twist I didn't see coming.

Let's hear this fella out before we start drawing conclusions or resort to name-calling. He continued, "It was a fantasy and I told her before we started everything that one time, and we are done, and we go back to our normal happy life."

She might have agreed to that prior to extending the invite to her friend, but now she wants to do it again and won't stop bringing it up. It's starting arguments between the two, and he claims their own sex life is being affected.

Marriage Might Be Ruined Beyond Repair

His wife "refuses to respect" his wishes. He's stuck, he doesn't know what to do and is worried about the future of their marriage. He added, "It may seem crazy that I don't want to have sex with women, but I love my wife, and it was just to fulfill a fantasy.  I'm lost."

If only all of life's problems came down to whether or not to continue to have threesomes with your wife and other women. Life's just not fair sometimes. She doesn't even want other men to join in the fun, just women.  That's absolutely selfish and unreasonable.

"We have tried having conversations about it, but then things get heated when I express I am not interested anymore. I think we have ruined our marriage," the husband said of their unfortunate situation.

"We barely talk and when we do it's just snickering back-handed comments. We don't even touch or kiss each other. We just lay next to each other with a pillow between us. I didn't think me not wanting to have sex with her and other women would be a problem, but here we are."

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think there's a fairly simple solution to all of this. She's got to file for divorce and find someone who loves her for her. It's the summer of threesomes after all and this is never going to work out.

The wife is up for a good time and having some good old-fashioned suburban American fun while the husband wants to sit around like an elderly couple and watch Law & Order. I hope she finds what she's looking for.